
Know Yourself, Know Others: How the Five Elements Reflect Personality and Emotions
On the steps of the Potala Palace, the early morning sun enabled the monks low and disconnected rhythm of chanting sutras while the walls bathed in golden sunlight. At times, the rhythm was quick and sometimes, it was slow- like a heartbeat; like the Five Elements softly whispering, every person’s inner world has their own set rhythm. The Potala Palace I, too, attribute a trail of moving energy, when envisioning a person’s personality. For instance, a fire-type person emanates warmth and enthusiasm, while a wood-type is full of endless ideas and energy and is always reaching upward. An earth-type is as dependable and dependable as the ground underneath you, as a metal-type whose reasoning is sharp and decisive. Unlike the water-type person who is sensitive and intuitive. I remember a narrow alley in Lhasa where I met a young shop owner. He held a string of turquoise beads, sunlight hitting them just so, and ran his fingers over each one. “Whenever I feel restless, I look at these beads,” he said. “It’s like staring into a tiny forest—my breathing slows down.” Wood-types, always striving, often carry impatience or anxiety. The cool, smooth yet slightly warm feel of green jade or turquoise is grounding—like morning dew on fresh leaves—reminding them to pause and just breathe. Fire-types are like the sun in high summer: bright, hot, and impossible to ignore. A friend of mine is fire-type. He’s always racing to finish tasks, constantly motivating his team. One afternoon, he sat on his balcony, holding a string of red agate beads. Sunlight warmed the stones, and he said, “These beads remind me that passion doesn’t have to burn everything in its path.” The slightly heavy, smooth touch and the warm glow of red agate or garnet help fire-types channel energy instead of scattering it—like a steady flame instead of a wildfire. Earth-types are grounding, reliable. During a meditation session, I noticed an earth-type friend holding yellow citrine beads. With each slow breath, he pressed the beads into his hand, feeling their weight and warmth. “They anchor me,” he said. “Like the earth is holding me up.” Citrine and earthy stones are soft and dense, their gentle glow making you feel rooted, even when life is pulling you in different directions. Metal-types have clarity and decisiveness. I once walked with a metal-type friend, whose wrist was adorned with clear quartz beads. He rolled them slowly between his fingers. “I need to act quickly,” he said, “but I want to keep my mind clear.” Clear quartz is smooth, transparent, almost icy to the touch. The metallic accents add a crisp, grounding clarity—reminding metal-types that rationality and warmth can coexist. Water-types are fluid, sensitive, and often quietly powerful. My cousin, a water-type, is intuitive but sometimes overwhelmed by emotion. I gave her a string of obsidian beads. She held them in her palm and said, “Every time I touch these, I feel like my heart is being held, like a river flowing quietly.” Obsidian and lapis lazuli are smooth and deep; lapis adds tiny specks of starlight. Together, they remind water-types to embrace silence, to ride the current without being carried away. The Five Elements are all about balance: Wood feeds Fire, Fire feeds Earth, Earth feeds Metal, Metal feeds Water, Water feeds Wood. Wood restrains Earth, Earth restrains Water, Water restrains Fire, Fire restrains Metal, Metal restrains Wood. Too much Wood? Borrow a bit of Earth. Fire running hot? Invite Water to cool it. Metal too hard? Let in Fire’s warmth. Water too restless? Let Earth ground it. Balance isn’t abstract; it’s something you feel, something you notice when your own rhythm wavers. Beaded bracelets are a way to make that balance tangible. Each stone carries not just color and texture, but intention. Green jade and turquoise whisper to wood-types: grow, but breathe. Red agate and garnet guide fire-types to channel heat gently. Yellow citrine and earthy stones remind earth-types to stay grounded. Clear quartz and metal accents give metal-types clarity and steadiness. Obsidian and lapis lazuli help water-types settle into calm. Every touch of a bead is a small conversation with the elements, a reminder to check in with your inner world. The Five Elements Bracelets The rhythm of the Five Elements, combined with the feel of the beads, isn’t just beautiful—it’s a daily ritual. With every touch, every breath, you bring balance into your day. Strengths are amplified, edges softened, and gradually, your heart finds its own pace. That’s the quiet power of the Five Elements—and of a simple string of beads.